AUTISM AWARENESS MONTH TIPS

       TEN TIPS TO HELP SUPPORT SPECIAL

                      NEEDS FAMILIES

Raising a child with a disability, while trying to balance work

and family responsibilities is no easy task for even the most dedicated parent. Managing all aspects of a special needs

child daily living – including personal needs, school activities, therapy sessions,medical appointments – can be extremely demanding and time-consuming.

“Autism Awareness Month is a wonderful time for family,

friends and the public to show their support for the parents

of children with autism and special needs,” said Deanna Picon.

According to the Centers for Disease Control and

Prevention, 1 in 54 U.S. children has an autism spectrum disorder.  Behind thesestartling statistics are overwhelmed

and unprepared parents,whose lives have been forever

changed by an autism diagnosis.

"These parents are hidden heroes who bravely face autism

andall the enormous challenges and huge responsibilities

that accompany it on an everyday basis. They may be your

best friend,your cousin, your neighbor or co-worker," says Picon. "Special needs parents deserve respect and

recognition for many reasons,including the sheer guts it

takes to stay dedicated to this challenge."

Family and friends can apply these simple tips to make a

huge difference in the lives of special needs parents

throughout the year:

1. Give a well-deserved break.  Parenting is a 24/7,

365 day job forthese parents, so any time they can get a

few hours for themselves is great. Volunteer to watch their

son or daughter at home or take him/her to a park or

movie for a few hours. This will give parents the

opportunity to have a good time and participate in hobbies, events and activities they enjoy.

And if you’re a family member or close friend, perhaps you can keep their child overnight or for a weekend. They’ll have “peace of mind” knowing their child is safe and well-cared for.  Best of all, there are no child care costs.

2. Help with everyday tasks.  Pick up some food and beverages at the supermarket when you shop or drop

off some clothes at the dry cleaners. It'll save parents much needed time and energy.

3. Bring a dish.  A pizza pie, box of chicken or even a

take-out mealfrom a local Italian restaurant can make

everyone feel good and valued. Little cupcakes are fun treats for desserts. Gift cards for alocal restaurant can be a

wonderful surprise.
 

4. Assist with household chores.  Vacuum a room, wash some dishes or cut up some lettuce and tomatoes for a

salad. Remember, no gesture is too small and parents will always be grateful.

5. Keep in touch and be supportive.  Special needs

parents often feel alone and isolated, so it's really beneficial

to let them know you're there, if they need you. With

Mother’s and Father’s Day approaching soon, this is a

perfect time to send a greeting card letting them know

they’re great parents. Text, email or call to just

say "Hello".  

6. Listen without judgement.  Bring over some snacks,

sit down and just listen. Allow them to laugh, cry, vent and blow off somesteam. No one expects you to solve their problems or providesolutions. A friendly face or shoulder

to lean on works perfectly.

These kind of simple but valuable good deeds don't have

to be limited to friends and family. Work colleagues can

express their support as well:
 

7. Treat them.  Little gestures can bring a big smile to the special needs parent in your office. Buy a cup of coffee or

tea with a donut or bagel and place it on their desk in the morning. What a great way to start their day! Take a

co-worker out for a nice lunch.

The public can also support special needs families in various ways:

8. Increase public awarenss.  Autism Awareness Month is a perfect time to learn more about this disorder. Watch a TV news report, read an article or go online to gain a better understanding of this condition. Start a conversation with a friend or family member.

9. Participate. You don't have to be personally affected by autism to become involved in charitable activities such as a community fundraiser or walk. If possible, take part in a local autism event in your area. Meet some of the wonderful special needs families in your community.

10. Express your support. Donations to local and national autism organizations are always welcome and appreciated. Purchase goods and services from companies that contribute to autism-related causes.